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THE POWER OF TWO - PART 3 This is the third in our series dedicated to the question, "How do we actually work out becoming one?" The first devotional generated a lot of response at the suggestion that we can really become one flesh, so we followed up with a devotional that addressed the principle of reserving judgment. In this third devotional we'll talk about how to influence one another toward what we believe is "right," -something, we all try to do whether we admit it, or not. We may as well find a way that really works, don't you think? "Don't you see how wonderfully kind, tolerant, and patient God is with you? Does this mean nothing to you? Can't you see that his kindness is intended to turn you from your sin?" -Romans 2:4 It's interesting to note that Paul didn't say, "Lecturing on the righteous principles of God will lead them to repentance." Neither did he say, "Declaring with a loud voice the righteousness of God will lead them to repentance." You see, it's not the lectures or the loud tone of voice that leads people to repentance; it's the loving kindness of God that does the work. Yes, there may be a time, on a rare occasion, when God will call for a lecture or a stern, or loud voice, but that is the exception to the rule. Our general conversation should always reflect mutual respect, and loving kindness. It's in that atmosphere that one is most likely to seriously consider what you may have to say. It's been said before, and it is so true, that people don't care about what you know until they know that you care. The kindness of the Lord says, "I care about you and because I care I'm concerned about your behavior, etc.," That message opens the lines for effective communication. If we really want to "stir up one another to love and good works." (Heb. 10:24) we stand the best chance of success when we communicate with the kindness of the Lord. Otherwise we can continue declaring righteousness with lectures and loudness, and get nowhere but frustrated. Oh yes, you can be righteous all the way to divorce court. For the letter of the law kills but the Spirit -the spirit of Truth and Grace- gives life (2 Cor. 3:6). Question for The Both of Us: Do I come across demonstrating the loving kindness of the Lord even when I disagree with you, or when I think I'm right and you're wrong? Prayer For The both of Us: Dear Lord, help us to understand that it's in the atmosphere of loving kindness that we can be open to hearing each other, and are most willing to consider each other's point of view so that we can both change to be a little more like Christ each and every day. Help us to put away our nasty attitudes and to reflect not the letter of the law, but the spirit, the Spirit of Truth and grace. |
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